Don’t Cross the Bridge August 24, 2021

My Dad told me many stories about growing up and visiting his Grandparents in Delhi, Ontario. My brother, Brian, has been researching many of Dad’s tales. Brian commented, “Dad could tell a great story, and some of them were even true!” Below is a story from Bruce’s youth. It is up to you, the readers, to believe it or not.

My Father Bruce and his sister Marian, would often be sent to the family farm in Canada for the summer. There, they could explore the barn, climb trees, and feed the chickens, horses and cows. But they were told time and again, “Don’t cross the bridge over the creek!” There were dangerous animals in the woods on the other side.

  The creek was deep and the banks steep and muddy. The old bridge was narrow and had no handrails. The children had the run of the whole farm except by the creek.

  One day, Grandma called the children, “Bruce, Marian, Go and find the cows. It is time for milking.” They took off at a run. Marian had the longer legs and was faster than her younger brother. They came to the path to the meadow and the bridge. Marian was hot and turned to cross the bridge to wade into the cool water.

  ” Grandma will know we crossed,” said Bruce. “Come on she won’t know,” coaxed Marion . They removed their shoes and stockings and waded into the creek. Laughing as they splashed each other, forgetting about the cows.

  It soon grew darker. Marian was first to think about the cows.

“Hurry, get your shoes on,” she cried.

  They were sitting on the bank when a growling and snarling noise came from the woods. Marian jumped and ran for the bridge. Bruce ran too but his shoes were untied. The thick mud on the bank caught his feet like a cork in a bottle.

“Marian! Come and help me, I’m stuck!”

  But Marian never looked back as she raced to the house.

  Bruce was pulling his shoes from the mud when he heard a growl much closer and louder.

  With a shriek, he pulled his feet out of his shoes and ran home in stocking feet.

  Grandma was waiting on the front porch for the children. One look at their wet and muddy clothes and she remarked, “Crossed the bridge didn’t you.”

  Marian and Bruce started to tell Grandma about the terrible animal sounds they heard on the other side of the bridge.

  Grandma just snorted,”That was your Grandpa teaching you both a lesson in obedience.”

  “Should we go get the cows?” Bruce questioned.

“No, the cows have more sense that you two, they came home on their own.”

  The children were in bed before Grandpa finished his chores. In the morning, Bruce’s shoes were on the front steps, covered with mud. It took him all morning to clean and polish the shoes.

  Marian and Grandma went across the bridge to pick wild huckleberries. Marian had to carry the buckets home . She was tired and sore from carrying the berry filled buckets.

  Bruce learned his lesson. But Marian continued to test the boundaries of the rules. At the end of the summer, Grandma told Bruce and Marian’s Father, “Bruce can come back any time but keep Marian home.”

  For the next 8 years, Bruce came to the farm every summer to work with his grandpa and play. But he never crossed the bridge without permission.

Bruce had many adventures on the fanily farm with his cousins Bob and doug Turnbull. But that is for another day.

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Farm Play

Life on a farm is not all chores.

After feeding animals,

mucking out the stalls,

It was time to play.

The boys challenged each other,

to ride every animal on the farm.

The horses and cows gave little resistance

to an occasional rider.

Not the large sow.

One by one a boy would sneak up to her.

Swinging a leg over her back,

they would hold tightly to the neck.

The sow would buck, twirl like a bucking bronco. Finally, she would race under a fence,

knocking the rider into the mud.

The sow always won.

carolaspot@aol.com

copyright 8/24/2021

Leaf Memories ,the book August 19, 2021

I would like to tell you about the writing of this book. For the past three years, I have written poetry and submitted them to magazines. Some were accepted, many were not. I learned along the way what some editors wanted for their publications.

In June, I purchased a new writing program called, “Voice Dream Writer.” I haven’t discovered all of the tasks it will preform, but I was able to write sections of the book and more importantly, move poems, photos and text using the outline feature.

The curser was easier to find and move for ease of editing.

With this program, I was able to edit and proofread my book before sending to the book publishers.

I am happy with the resulting chapbook. I have selected two poems from the book to share with you.

Alone with Myself

Morning sun broke over a sparkle filled woods.

Carrying my poles and skis, I searched for a place to sit.

A long fallen trunk offered a purchase.

Jamming my poles into the drift, I slipped on one ski then the other.

I stood with the help of the poles, ready to push off.

The rhythm of the skis gliding made a soft swish in the quiet of the day.

My mind was free to ponder as long trained muscles took up the remembered cadence of moving.

I saw the low hanging branch and swerved to the right.

Snow and ice crackled underfoot as I crested the rise.

Tucking my poles under my arms, I raced down the hill to the pond.

The clear, smooth surface called to me.

I turned away fearing I would break through.

Instead, I rested to let my breathing slow and listen to the sound of my pulse in my ears.

Worried thinking vanished as I joined nature awakening to the sunrise.

I breathed long gulps of chilly air.

Renewed in body, mind and spirit.

Reflections

Rain distorts the reflection in the pane.

I contemplate my twisted hold on reality.

Memory of the visual world change with age.

reforming like a deck of shuffled cards.

The rain forms tears from heaven.

They water our souls and spirits.

I take a card and see what memory is is on top.

Building a story around the thought.

The fracture is my reality.

Below are two reviews of Leaf Memories with the website where you can find the reveiw and a quote from the reviewer .

Thank you Abbie and Peggy.

Abbies Review

https://www.dldbooks.com/carolfarnsworth/

Carol has a knack for drawing readers into her subject matter. I was right there with her and her husband on their tandem bike, as they pedaled furiously to reach safety ahead of an approaching thunderstorm in “With the Wind” and as she cross-country skied down a hill to enjoy the peace of a pond in “Alone with Myself.” After reading “Beauty in the Field,” I was angered to think that people, perhaps inadvertently, destroy nature in order to enjoy it.

Peggy review

https://www.goodreads.com/review/show/4173614319?type=review#rating_402728240

I enjoyed following Carol Farnsworth, my husband’s sister, through the seasons. She gives close attention to the plant and animal life she encounters near her home in the upper midwest. When I finished the book, I felt pleasantly relaxed, as if I had visited a place of great natural beauty.

2 Pencils and black cats August 17, 2021

Today is #2 pencil day and black cat appreciation day. I have two stories that link the days.

When my daughter was in school, she collected #2 pencils with fancy designs and holiday themes. She would keep them in a vase Selecting a special pencil to use during finals She said that the pencil had to be as special as the day.

When Ruth left for college, I found her stash of pencils. I decided to give them out during Trick or Treating. We always have some children that don’t like candy or can’t have any. The pencils went quickly.

I have loved the look of a sleek black cat. My brother Bob had a Black cat that came with his home in West Virginia. The cat had an independent nature. He would jump out at unsuspecting toes and feet. This earned him the name KC or Killer Cat. He would show his human housemates his appriciation by living gifts of mice and small birds on the front steps.

But the most interesting behavior was to crawl into the base of a small organ that Bob would play. KC would push down on the bedals to gain access. I don’t if he appreciated the music. He would tear out of the organ’s base when the music began. But he would continue to hide in the quiet organ.

People have seen black cats as magical at best and evil at worse. The appreciation day is to highlight the number of black cats available in shelters. By giving them a day and a reduced adaption fee, the shelters hope that the black cats will be adopted. they can be wonderful pets and deserve good homes.

So this Halloween if I decorate with a black cat it will be smiling and cuddlin.

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A Black Cat

Faster than a running mouse.

More powerful than a stuffed kitty toy.

Able to leap to the highest shelf with a single bound.

Who disguised as a mild manner cat washing his fur,

Fights against black cat prejudice with cuddling.

It’s the American way.

carolaspot@aol.com

copyright 8/17/2021

International Youth Day, August 12, 2021

This day was set aside to highlight cultural and educational issues of the world’s youth. It was established by the United Nations in 1999 and has a new theme each year.

This year the theme is working for peace. There are many events in different countries to promote the activities and achievements of youth.

Locally, my husband and I went to check the county 4H fair near us.

We found youth cleaning barns, caring for farm animals, they would stop to greet visiters and answer questions about the livestock.

The Youth demonstrated skills in preserving food, sewing, woodworking and the ability to knit and sew. Other Youth were exhibiting equestrian skills . The future farmers of America would be proud of each of the skills displayed.

The ability to produce, preserve and distribute food has a direct impact on peace. Hungry people want food, not necessarily peace. Whether they realize it or not, the youth in organizations like 4H, boy and girl scouts and church that work to promote and assist the needy people in their community are an asset. Their example to others show what can be done working together for the better.

So as I watch that small piglet find his mother, or I listen to an explanation of the care of a calf ,or touch the knitted baby blankets that will be donated to a shelter, I am confident in the future, we can hand over the world in good shape.

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Clean barns, animals too,

smiling faces, eager to help.

They have the knowledge to provide,

When the old guard steps aside.

Carolaspot@aol.com

copyright 8/12/2021

Long living Plants August 10, 2021

I buy plants each year to place in my container garden. Miniature roses, shasta daisies, lupins and begonias. Herbs of rosemary, lavender , basil, cilantro, sage and dill. A tomato and swiss chard round out the assortment.

I expect these to grow and die in the first hard freeze. Sometimes, I try to bring some plants in to coax to live to spring. Most of them will die also.

There are two exceptions to this rule. My Jerusalem cherry and my peace plant.

My Jerusalem cherry is over 40 years old. It puts on bright orange and red fruit the size of a small marble. The dry fruit falls and starts another plant.

There is a story about the origins of this plant. My brother Bob spent one and a half years in Israel working on a kibbutz. He met many new friends while working. Several of the friends came to visit the States and stopped by my parents home. My Mother played hostess to one young man that stayed a week. He wanted to give her a thank you gift. He walked to the local florist and came back with a small plant balanced on his head. That was a Jerusalem cherry. The mother plant produced many cherries and baby plants. I have given enough of the plants and dry cherries to grow an orchard. Note: the cherries are not edible.

The second long lived plant is a peace plant. This plant is made up of small plants that bunch together. When they become crowded they put out a white growth with seeds covered by a bract. They resemble a flower. If the plants become too root bound , they will start to die unless they are replanted.

We received this plant over30 years ago at the time of our daughter’s birth. It has been divided, re-planted and given away many times.We still have two containers of the plant.

It is nice to think we always have peace and the beauty of the Jerusalem cherry to grace our home. They are physical reminders of the people who came into our lives.

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Peace Lily

stately blooms,

many glossy leaves,

tranquility

carolaspot@aol.com

copyright 8/10/2021

Sibling Weekend and an Ad, August 5, 2021

This past weekend was an aunnual event in my family. My brother,

Brian, opens his cottage to my siblings and spouces for a long weekend on the shores of upper Lake Michigan.

This year my deceased brother’s wife Kathy, joined us.

The talk revolved around the people no longer at the table.

My sister asked, “Have any of you had dreams about Mike “? We thought at first she was teasing, but she was serious. None of us were sure what she wanted to hear.

I talked first, stating I had a dream with my first husband and my brother in it. I couldn’t remember the details bout the dream . My other two brothers were not sure if they had any dreams of him.

Kathy was looking for any stories that Mike was ok. This led to several disscussions about memories, death and what is possible with close family connections.

My oldest brother Bob stated,”I will keep an open mind”. That night he did dream about when his brother Mike surprized him in Guam with a visit. They talked and when Bob awoke, he had several emotions. In the end he was glad to have had the dream.

Last night , I woke to the smell of coffee. In my dream, I felt the back of a large , tall man. He turned and I recognized my brother. We talked and he went to get me some coffee. I awoke to find no coffee nor Mike, but I had a lasting feeling of contentment.

The powere of suggestion, old memories, or a contact from beyond the grave? I don’t know. I do know that the feelings were a gift to me. Below is an ad for my new book that was released on the same weekend. It is called”Leaf Memories” .This is the first and last time I will use this blog as a promotion. ***

LEAF MEMORIES

A book of poetry and photos by Carol Farnsworth / C 2021

In e-book and print from Amazon and Smashwords / 44 pages in print

Cover image, full synopsis, author bio, direct buying links, and free text sample:

https://www.dldbooks.com/carolfarnsworth/

Synopsis:

I have always loved walking in the woods. I usually explore with my husband or daughter to act as a sighted guide. They find flora for me to touch.  When I had some vision, they would point out fauna—a deer, or a bird taking flight. At those times, I was lucky to see the white of a retreating deer or hear the sound of wings in flight.

When I became totally blind, I developed my senses of touch, hearing, smell, and taste to see the world. I incorporated visual memories to complete the picture.

After two hip replacements, I could no longer walk the woods I loved. My husband and I became a tandem cycling team. This allowed me to experience nature in a different way.

I wrote this chapbook of poems after I lost my sight. I found there are many ways to enjoy nature, such as using your hands to explore, along with your other senses.

From Leonore Dvorkin, editor of Leaf Memories:

The poems are arranged according to the seasons of the year, starting with summer. They mainly tell of the author’s appreciation of the beauty of nature and her concern for the environment and wildlife. Three joyful photos show her laughing little daughter in a huge pile of fall leaves (on the cover and inside the book), Carol helping to make maple syrup, and Carol and her husband standing by their tandem bicycle.    

carolaspot@aol.com

copyright 8-5-2021

Weather, what you hear or what you see, August 3, 2021

This week I heard from my Brazilian sister Adelia. She lives in San Paulo. She emailed to say, It was snowing in that southern city. It is only the third time she has experienced snow, but never in San Paulo.

As I listen to the national weather report, I get the indication that all of Oregon and California is burning. My friend called me to report that the fire in Oregon was in a national forest and lava field. The loss was to wildlife. Only thirty buildings were lost. The smoke from that fire moved east to mix with the fires in Canada to haze the sky in the mid west and on the east coast.

In northern California and in the San Fransisco bay area. Skys are clear and free of smoke.

Another friend in the San Diego area reported beautiful weather even an early morning thunder storm.

This past week, heavy rains, swelled rivers in Belgium and southern Germany with a high cost of life and property.

The number of hurricanes have increased in number and severity. The season starts earlier each year.

When listening to the news, I have a difficult time telling the truth from news hype. I found that weather items in our country are hyped. Other countries are mentioned quickly or not mentioned at all.

How we make an accurate assessment of climate change, if we are not given the facts? If reporting of the weather is skewed, what about the other stories like the delta variant virus or what is happening in the capitals of our states and countries?

Maybe newspeak is alive in the news to sell drug commercials.

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Extreme Weather

The west is burning so reported.

The south is under flood watch.

The mid-west is waiting for straight line winds and thunder storms.

The east coast will continue to be in the smoke haze.

Is there a norm anywhere?

carolaspot@aol.com

copyright 8/3/2021

A Weighty Matter ,July 29, 2021

Yesterday morning, my husband and I biked into town to visit the library and stop at the local grocery. We picked up several items some needed , some not so. One of the items we selected was a watermelon.

When we left the store, we had to think how to carry the melon home. I volunteered, to put it in the backpack to carry it home . I had recovered from a compression fracture in my lower back the month before. “I will be fine” I stated.

John took the extra bike stuff and other food items and placed them in a cloth bag in the baskets of the bike.

I got on the bike and the momentum of the melon, pulled me off the other side of the bike. Finally my added wheight and I were centered on the seat for the ride home.

As we drove, I was reminded of a friend, Bill Barkley. He was a fellow Association for the Blind board member. He retired to train for a climb up Mount Kilimanjaro. Bill trained with a weighted climbing pack daily for 6 months. He slowly increased the weight from 20 kilos to 40 kilos. He walked the hilly terrain in a local woods.

Bill was deaf and losing his vision, yet he had this dream to climb a mountain.

When he arrived in Tanzania, he worked with a sighted guide to follow verbal direction. He had the guide miked with the audio feed going directly into Bill’s ears.

Slowly they made their way up the mountain. This is a steady climb for 19340 feet above sea level. Bill fell several times on the climb but he was determined to achieve the summit.

When he arrived the sun was rising over the African plain. He was able to see streaks of yellows, oranges and reds in his vision. He reported it was glorious.

As I carried my back two miles home, I thought of the many miles that

Bill walked to work towards his goal. No fans, sport reporters or countrymen shared in his glory.

We have the Olimpics, where the competition is geared more to bragging rights for countries rather encouraging individual athletes achievements.

Athletes have reported extreme stress at the competition. Perhaps it is time to take the counries out of the Oylimpics and applauded the individual’s achievement.

There was no one on the top of Kilimanjaro except the guide.The feat was enough for Mr. Barkley. He was in charge of his own stress.

As I gingerly got off the bike so as not to drop my watermelon, I have a new admiration for the time and training that goes into the moment of physical glory, whether it is witnessed by the world or by oneself.

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Olympics

Offer the oppurtunity to preform.

People train for their whole lives.

Led to believe that the work is for them.

Years of sweat and stress come to a single moment.

Many are crushed by stress, not of their making.

People try to share in the glory they don’t deserve.

Individuals are forgotten to score for a country.

Causing the focus to be on the politics.

Scoring for bragging rights.

carolaspot@aol.com

copyright 7-29-2021

The Pipes are Calling July 27, 2021

At the sound of bagpipes, Scotsmen rise as one to wave, cheer and clap. The hearts of many a countrymen can be moved to tears. Not this Scottish lass.

When I visited Scotland, I looked forward to explore all aspects of my Scottish heritage. We visited castles, cathedrals from the middle ages, kilts and bagpipes.I enjoyed all of them, in moderation!

I became accustomed to hearing a piper on many street corners dressed in full Highland garb. I started to equate the whine of the pipes to the drone of an insect, it was eveywhere.

On a ferry boat ride to one of the Highland’s outer islands, I heard a sound that I perceived as piped in bagpipe music. My husband laughed and told me I was hearing a squeaky hatch.

I will admit that I have a hearing loss, but, I always heard those bagpipes loud and clear.

I did bring a CD of bagpipe and drum marching songs to my Dad. He loved it. Maybe I am too distant from the homeland.

So on this National bagpipe appreciation Day, I will listen again to the pipes with a shot of the Scottish wiskey. I am sure both will complement each other.

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Kilts

Scottish men love their kilts.

They have work kilts in browns and grey.

Mechanics put on coveralls

to protect their kilts.

On the way to the football match,

kilts are worm with team shirts and boots.

Even in the countryside, older mem,

cling to their kilts,

In a breeze , they may be exposed.

For kilts have nothing underneath,

except what nature gave.

carolaspot@aol.com

copyright 7.27/2021

“Let them eat cake” July 22, 2021

Before the French Revolution, Marie Antoinette was quoted saying to feed the poor with cake. Her limited grasp of French, may have allower her use the wrong word, cake for bread.

As a child, my first introduction to French was the confection,”petit fours”. They are small layered cakes one to two inches square. A cream filling is layered between the cake. There are five to seven layers in each little cake. The whole square is covered with a hard candy frosting with a sugar decoration on top. They come in many colors and flavors.

My mother would receive a box of these treats each Christmas from a good friend in town. She and I had a game of hide and seek with the box. Mom would try hiding the box in the back of the junk drawer. I would find them. Then she tried to put them in the vegtable bin of the refrigerator. I would find them there. Finally , she placed them in the far back of the freezer. I found them again.

It was not just me. Two of my friends also had a craving for these miniture cakes. When we searched and found them, we were careful to take a cake from different parts of the box. If there were not many cakes, we moved the cakes around to make it appear there were more in the box.

This holiday search, was remembered fondly by my two friends. One holiday after I was married, Laurel sent me a box of my own. My daughter had never heard the story nor tasted the candies . She has always enjoyed miniature items. She loved the little cakes.

This year , we decided to send her a box of her own for her birthday. Amazon had several types of petit fours to choose from. We select the cakes that spelled out “Happy Birthday”. The problem arose when we tried to type in the mailing address.

Our daughter and son in law have recently built a home in a new development. The system that Amazon uses doesn’t recognize the new road or address. They wanted to change it to a similar road. We couldn’t get the company to take the new address. What to do?

My husband came up with a solution. He Took a screen shot of the item we wanted her to have. Then he made a check out for the item and the cost of mailing. We put it in a birthday card and sent it in the mail. The U.S. Postal service does recognize the new address.

Ruth received the card last Saturday. She said she would order them. They should arrive before her birthday on the 30 of July. Anyone for cake?

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Petit Cakes

Little cakes, small cakes

colorful squares,

layered with cream and cake,

different flavors to choose from. Heaven!

Carolaspot@aol.com

copyright 7/22/2021