Hunting Season, November 16, 2021

Yesterday was opening day for deer hunting season here in Michigan. As a child, I have few memories about hunting except this was a time when my Mother and I caught the bus at 5 Points and rode to downtown Detroit,to spend the day shopping at Hudsons.

We would eat lunch in the Hudson’s cafeteria. There was a special floor just for children to shop with no parents. The items were inexpensive and there were clerks to help find items for all the people on my list.

I have one memory of my Dad skinning a rabbit. He had it hung from the basement ceiling. I asked for one of the rabbits feet. Instead he handed me the fluffy tail to hold commenting,”The feet weren’t lucky for this rabbit.” Later , I recall seeing a bowl of rabbit meat soaking in water and salt. Mom remarked,”the meat must be soaked to remove all the blood.” I don’t remember eating the stew.

I do recall a story Dad told about the last deer hunt that he and Grandpa Turnbull were on together. Grandpa Cliff, had experienced two strokes. Though physically he was sound, He had memory losses. He would repeat the same story over and over to my Dad.

They decided to drive to the Upper Peninsula to hunt at Warner’s cabins, owned by friends from town. It was a long trip and Dad was regaled with the same hunting stories until Grandpa smacked the dash remarking,”I have already told you this, Bruce please stop me if I do this again,”

They got to the cabins late in the afternoon and unpacked. They would hunt early the next day.

In the morning, Bruce took his Dad to a deer blind that offered some shelter from the snow and wind. Grandpa was left with a thermos of hot coffee, blankets , a chair and a place to prop up his gun.

“Dad, if you need me, fire several shots in the air and I will come to help.”

“Bruce, I will be alright, just go hunting.”

So with his Dad snug and safe from other hunters, my Dad went off to hunt while walking the woods. He didn’t see any game. After several hours, Dad decided to go and check on Cliff.

As he entered the clearing, imagine his surprize to see a deer, a nine point buck hanging in a tree.

“Dad, how did you dress that deer?”

Grandpa sheepishly admitted that after he shot the deer, he tried to hoist the large deer into a tree. Two hunters, hearing the shots, asked if Grandpa needed some help.

That would be great.”

So the three of them hoisted the deer and dressed it.

When my Dad came back, Grandpa was finishing the last of his coffee. Bruce loaded the items form the blind and tied the deer to the hood of his car.

All the way home and for the rest of Grandpa’s life he told and retold the story of his last deer hunt.

All too soon, Grandpa died several months later. My Dad said that he would give anything to hear his Dad tell the hunting story one more time.

This Thanksgiving take the time to appreciate and listen to those you are with. The stories will be the memories for the future. Remind others of the people who are gone by sharing stories about the family members no longer with us.

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This is a poem from the Weekly Avocet that was published last week. The Avocet is a great to get your poetry out to others to read and comment. For information contact cportolanto@hotmail.com.

Falling

It was a breezy October day.

Blowing the last of the rains away

a scarf dangles around my throat.

As I rummage for a warm coat.

Rushing outside to my woods,

I turn the wind with my hood.

Soon, I find a fallen tree.

A throw (a depression) at the base waits for me.

Snuggling in, my back at the base,

Looking around, I see empty space.

Hues of red and orange form a lacy canopy.

I sit quite still to wait and see.

Soon a wind starts to blow.

Leaves are plucked , swirl like jeweled snow.

I watch until I am covered with leaves.

Smiling, I feel one with the trees.

All too soon, I feel the cold.

Shaking off leaves, I turn to go.

Stopping I reach for a golden leaf.

This one I will keep

In memory of falling leaves.

carolaspot@aol.com

copyright 11/16/21

Marguerite Heatley Turnbull November 11, 2021

My Mother, nicknamed Rita, was born on the original Armistice day in 1918 in The Detroit metro area. She was the second oldest of four siblings. Unlike her older sister Dorothy, Rita loved to help care for her little brother and sister.

When she was around age eight, Her Mother was sent to to a Toledo hospital to be treated with advanced breast cancer. Grandpa Al Heatley drove all four children to see their Mother each Sunday after church. I found a letter written by Rita to her Mother .

Dear Mommie, We are beling good and taking care of the cleaning and watching each other. Baby Albert misses you very much. We are praying for you to come home soon.

Love

Rita

Grandma Annie didn’t recover and she died in the late 1920’s

The Depression of 1929 hit hart on the Heatley’s. A widower, with four young children, Al had to hire a person to care for the children and cook the meals. Al was a barber. When money was tight, people cut their own hair.

In her early teens, Rita was sent to Aunt Emily and Uncle Leo’s farm in Imaly City. She was amazed that she could go into the garden and pick a

tomato or pull a carrot and eat it.

Rita had been giving some of her food portion to her siblings. This behavior continued when she was our Mother. She divided the food in sevenths but she always had the smallest portion.

She had hope to go to college but with only the five hundred dollars left from her Mother’s will, she opted for Cleary Business school. She was able to keep finacial books and perform secretarial tasks.

When WWII was declaired, Rita worked at the Willow Run plant, turning out bombers. She traveled with her husband , Bruce to Florida and then to California while he was in the Marines. She continue to work for military officers as a secretary.

After the war, she wanted to stay in California but Dad convinced her to return home to Northville because they both had aging parents.

Settling in a rental cottage in Wall Lake. Rita started to save for a new home in Northville.

Rita could make a nickel stretch to buy a quarter’s worth of food. With coupons, day old bread and over ripe bananas , she baked muffins, and kept five growing children clothed and fed.

My Mother had a deep draw to her Catholic faith. She onced joked that if she hadn’t married my Dad, she would have been a nurse or a nun. Good thing for us kids, she married!

After twenty years, we siblings still tell stories about my Mother’s frugal ways. Such as the ten cent bunch of bananas or eat peanut butter or cereal if you are hungry and who gets the last muffin continue to be told at family gatherings.

Rita’s children and friends owe much to this quiet woman. Her way of making a person feel at home and welcomed in our home will be remembered. One of her friends called her a Super Mom.

I know that Rita would hate all this praise, but I know that we were blessed to have her as our Mother.

Since this is also Veterans Day, My poem will be about the two Veterans in my family, My Dad and brother Mike.

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Side by Side

side by side two benches stand

equal in size and width

Mirror images of each other

for a Father and son veterans of two different wars

In life they walked side by side

like soldiers in formation

simular in height and manner

sharing the same crooked smile

side by side they wait on the village green

offering rest and support to passers by

remembered by those that loved them

forever like sentinels side by side

carolaspot@aol.com

copyright 11/11/2021

International Freedom Day, November 9, 2021

When I was a child, I recall commercials about “Radio Free Europe. The terms Iron Curtain, Eastern Block and The Berlin Wall were heard but not understood.

The Berlin Wall was completed in 1961 when I was 7. All through my childhood and adolescence, I was surrounded with these terms but I was unaware what they meant.

In the summer of 1989, Austria invited Hungary to a picnic. It would require crossing a border from the east to the west. Because people from the Eastern Block could cross their borders into another Communist country, East Berliners could travel to Czechoslovakia then to Hungary. The numbers of people gathered at the Hungarian border overwhelmed the border gaurds and people were allowed to cross to the picnic.

The idea of a picnic in Austria was to test the U.S.S.R. on the resolve to maintain closed borders. There was no public reaction by any of the Communist block governments.

Once people crossed the border they were met with flowers, gifts,food, and German deutch marks. Many were persuaded to not return to their homes.

In the fall of 1989 East Berlin was economically unstable. They tried to surcure a short term loan from West Berlin but were denied.

East Berliners didn’t trust their government. The leaders debated how much to open their border to West Berlin. From all crossing open to just one crossing opened with strict sercurty. They decided on a strict limit of the border and went public on the radio to announce it. A press resease was given to a bureaucrat not privy to the debate. His paper outlined the more open border policy.

Afterward, the room was silent before one of the reporters asked,”When does this take effect?” This was close to nineteen hundred hours on November 9th. Referring again to his paper, He said,”Immediately.”

After the announcement, the official was interviewed by Tom Brokaw, for Radio Free Europe and Voice of America. This was the way most of the population learned that all the borders were open.

People on both sides of the wall gathered for the opening. Guards were confused and called for directions. Finally the size of the crowds convinced the guards to open the gates.

East and West Berliners were united. This is the day celebrated as the day the Berlin wall fell and the Cummunist block started to fracture.

During the twenty eight years of the dividing wall, two hundred people were killed trying to escape East Berlin.

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The Wall

Built strong,to protect and confine,

But like manmade obstacles, it was vulnerable

To people’s will

On November ninth, East and West Berliners danced on the wall’s grave.

carolaspot@aol.com

copyright 11/9/2021

Easy Bake Oven Day, November 4, 2021

On November 4th, 1963, the First Easy Bake Oven was introduced before Christmas. I was eight years old and I had this toy on the top of my Christmas list.

I didn’t receive one from Santa. But my best friend, Laurel, did get the special toy.

The original oven was pink and used two 100 watt light bulbs to cook small cakes and cookies.

A few mixes were included with the oven. More mixes could be purchased at the toy store.

The dry mix was made with water. The pans included with the oven were pushed through a slot on the side with a handle. When the timer sounded, the finished cake was pushed out the other slot.

I begged my friend to play with the oven. I even bought mixes to replace the ones we used.

The Kenner toy company produced the oven in a variety of colors and sizes. In In the early 1990’s, Hasbro Toys bought the Kenner Toy company. They started to make a oven in gender neutral colors and with a heating element instead of light bulbs.

We purchased a Hasbro Easy cook oven in 1997 for our daughter. Ruth and her friend Dannie, loved to make desserts and snacks using this toy.

In addition to the oven, there was a heating element on the burner top that would melt chocolate chips.

The girls melted chocolate, poured it into flower molds. Then sprinkled with decorative colored sugars.

The Hasvro ovens were named snacks centers. They could cook main dishes and desserts. The pans were bigger than the pans from Kenner.

Eventually, little girls and boys want to use the real oven. This toy was a nice transition to real baking.

Below is a photo of an new easy bake oven.

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Christmas 1997

We waited until she was in bed.

Starting to bring up the hidden gifts, we hear a wail.

“Joey!” “Where is my Joey bear?”

Stopping Santa, we start to hunt.

Finally, Joey is located in Ruth’s play house in the basement.

She was so happy to have her bear buddy,

She didn’t notice the presents under the tree.

carolaspot@aol.com

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Natures Music, Waterfalls November 2, 2021

As we continued our tour of the eastern Upper Peninsula, we found waterfalls in abundance. Water trickles from the western porcupine Mountains to the cliffs of sandstone to the overlooks and sand dunes of the lakeshore.

Our first visit was to the Lower Tahquamenon Falls. The bubbling brook was beside the boardwalk. As we approached the drop off, the notes of the moving water changed from high to low notes.

The lower falls are seen as steps curving to Lake Superior. They drop from 6 to 12 feet with the last one falling less than two feet. The total of 5 different waterfalls in a close space gives the listener a variety of musical notes .The runoff from the cedars give the lower falls the nickname ,”The rootbeer falls” for the brown foaming water.

The upper Falls is four miles upstream from the lower Falls. Unlike the lower falls situated in a cedar bog, the upper Falls cut through a forest of hardwoods. Trees are festooned with reds, yellows and orange leaves. The tannin from the tamarack trees color the water with a light golden color.

The Tahquamenon Falls is almost fifty feet in height and 200 feet across. The natural beauty of the site has been preserved as a state park.

In the winter, the falls can be accessed by snowmobiles or snowshoeing.

The setting of the Munising Falls is found in the heart of the city of the same name. The falls is accessed by a easy paved 400 foot sidewalk. The falls is located in a deep ravine.

There used to be a path to walk behind the falls, but a rock slide made it too dangerous.

The sound of this water fall is accented by echos of the water off the ravine sides. The falls gives one the feeling of hearing distant thunder.

We met a couple of women from Milwaukee at the Munising Falls, As my husband went to check out the rock slide, one of the women asked, “What do you see?”

“Nothing,” I replied.

“O that is sad,”

I smiled remarking, “I hear the musical notes of the flowing and falling water and my memory can fill in the rest.

Munising was displaying peak color of fall leaves. An occasional purple oak competed with the butter yellow of the birch and the orange and red of the maples forming a tapestry of colors.

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Nature’s Symphony

The falling water beats on rocks like drums.

Bubbling waters sound like horns as they pop bubbles.

Dripping adds the high notes of a flute.

The music is magnified by the ravines sounding board.

Living water is wild with life.

carolaspot@aol.com

copyright 11/2/2021

The Yooper Peninsula, October 28, 2021

The upper Peninsula’s nickname is Yooper Country. The land situated between Lake Superior on the North and Lakes Michigan and Huron on the south is far different from the lower peninsula by lifestyle and politics. An independent surrounded by natural beauty and lake shores.

I have always found Whitefish Point a wild shoreline ,anchored by the Whitefish lighthouse. The rugged point has been the site for many a ship wreck. The lake is so cold that it is said that Superior never gives up it’s dead.

We went there early to see the sun rise. While on the point, we photographed a picture of a large freighter crossing the point. The currents and wave action makes this a dangerous sailing before the ship makes safe harbor in Soo Saint Marie, where the lake locks are located to allow ships into the lower lakes.

The morning I was on the beach at the point, the sand was littered with many ovel shaped stones all rounded by the wave actions.

I discovered that the Kirtland Warbler lays her clucth of eggs in the open on the beach. Her eggs look very much like the stones and are camouflaged from predators looking for eggs. The point is closed to people during the nesting season.

The morning I was there, the wind was strong enough to blow my hat off my head. The White caps were seen off shore and the breaking waves were three to four footers. The lake was crystal, icey blue.. The water was too cold to put your feet or hands in. They soon became numb and blue with the cold.

Why does this place draw me back time and again? It is the ancient play of waves, sand and stone to redefine the shore. The changes are in years but to the casual visiter, the area is timeless.

On this page is a photo of the point with a freaghter passing. Another photo is of the lighthouse all white and three stories high. It’s light can be seen in Canada on the far shore, five miles away.

I think of past travelers to these shores and I worry for the future of such wild natural places.

I return from this place centered and renewed.

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Lake Superior

Dark waters,

cold and deep in it’s depths.

Bordered by two countries.

Large waves slap the shores.

Depositing bits of the past on It’s beaches.

Could be a fresh water sea.

Source for Indian lore.

One travels it with apprehension.

The largest of the Great Lakes.

carolaspot@aol.com

copyright 28 2021

National Pumpkin Day October 26, 2021

With coolness, there is frost on the pumpkin. Time to smell warming Pumpkin faces lit with candles. The sights of fall.

On our bike travels, I have smelled the aroma of pumpkins being cooked and processed for the past two months.

On the rails to trails from Montague to Hart MI, there is a large plant that has piles of pumpkins to be process into pumpkin pie filling. One can watch pumpkins conveyed up to the top of the building. The piles of the orange veggies don’t shrink as more trucks wait patiently in line to unload their cargo. When the wind blows from the northwest, the cooked pumpkin can be detected for miles.

The purpose of pumpkin day is a time to go and select a pumpkin or two from pumpkin patches. The rule when I was a child was,”If you carry it out, you can have it.”You would be amazed how heavy those pumpkins got!

This past weekend we went up to The Great Pumpkin growing area. I was on the quest for the biggest one my husband and I could carry and load into our truck. I had a mental memory of one of my family sitting in a cute pumpkin as a baby.

If you haven’t gotten your pumpkin yet, what are you wanting for? This is a banner year for large specimens of the orange vegtable. Go find a field, explore and find the one that calls to you. Have a little fum for October 31st.

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Plump and ripe it waits for you.

Under drying leaves and vines.

Many will not make the cut.

Pushed and mulched back into the ground.

Kids will pick the biggest one

I smile and help carry it.

Nothing like playing in the home of the Great Pumpkin.

carolaspot @aol.co

copyright 10/26/2021

Typewriter Memories, October 21, 2021

Today, I received my new slim folio from Amazon. I have been waiting over a week to type easily using my I Pad. I was remembering our first typewriter. My Mother had a old Royal. It was big, heavy and totally dependable. I took personal typing the summer before ninth grade. I learned the key positions but I didn’t learn touch typing until I became blind. The practice with the Royal and piano playing have helped me to use most keyboards.

One of my writers friends wrote a memoir about his portable Underwood. Lennard gave me permission to re -post his essay.

Forever Underwood

I suddenly felt my stomach drop when I reached in to get my typewriter from the back seat of the Plymouth. My god, it’s not there. Then I saw, in my mind, an image of it on the University tarmac, waiting to be put on the back seat. Did I take it? Oh no, I must have left it there. I knew then it was gone forever.  Somebody would have found and claimed it by now. There was a whisper of hope that a good Samaritan would put it aside out of the way, where it would be safe for the owner to claim it. Who was I kidding? After all, this was the University of Florida. Someone had grabbed it, and I would never see it again.

It was not as though I could look for it now.  I hadn’t reached for it and found it gone until I arrived at my destination, which was 3 hours away in St. Petersburg.  I was visiting my girlfriend in my home town.  I wasn’t due to return until Monday, having left the University Friday evening.  Looking for the typewriter was the logical thing to do when I got back.  But, although hope blooms eternal, my hopes of ever finding it again were almost dead.

I tried to enjoy the weekend, but that faint hope was lurking behind to come to consciousness at every turn in my thinking, there to torture me with a great big maybe. Hope is the cruelest thing. I didn’t dare tell my parents about its probable loss. It had been in the family since I was about 6 years old. The Underwood typewriter was owned by my mother, who was using it to brush up on her secretarial skills.

I taught myself how to type on it. Some of my fingering was funky, but I became quite proficient.  She gave it to me when I went to college, and it was part of every study I did for every test. If I wanted to remember something I read in a text, I would type it out, restating the meaning in my own words. In other terms, it was invaluable to me. I couldn’t tell my mother about my carelessness.

The Underwood was in excellent condition and was a premier portable. I could never afford another one.  How I was going to get along without a typewriter, was a real problem.  I had no answers.

I managed to make it through the weekend and still enjoy it. When I drove back up to the University, my thoughts returned in full force to the Underwood sitting on the tarmac.  Upon arriving, I promptly searched the area around the parking area where I had left it. I was not surprised when I didn’t find it there. Then I rushed upstairs to my room. My roommate was there, and I told him what had happened. He only had condolences to offer.  No other searching offered any hope.

That day, I visited a used typewriter shop off campus.  I thought I might find one that I could afford if I skimped on some meals.  I saw one there that fit.  It was a far cry from a vintage Underwood. It looked like the first typewriter ever invented. Its action was much slower, and the quality of the print left much to be desired. The keys tended to jam, so your stroking had to be slower. It had no case to carry it in. However, it was the one I could afford. So, I bought it.

Through the years, I never had a typewriter as good as the one I learned on.  They stopped making manual, portable machines. The electric ones didn’t feel at all like the manual typewriters which I had grown used to. They would stroke with barely a touch.  Not for me. I found a local dealer in Charlottesville that could service and get ribbons for old ones, but I’ve never been able to find one half as good as the Underwood.

Nevertheless, the skill I develop using a keyboard has been invaluable to me.  Especially now that I am legally blind and unable to see the keys on a keyboard.  But I don’t have to.  Screen readers will echo my key strokes and read back what I write in all manner of details.  But when I use the computer keyboard, I think of the old Underwood, and how grateful I am at how it trained me. I hope it is still doing fine.  Maybe someday I will find it in a pawn shop.

tuchyner5@aol.com

carolaspot@aol.com

copyright 10-21-21

Brian Patrick Turnbull October 19, 2021

As far as I can remember, my family was divided into the three older boys and myself and my younger brother Brian. There was a wide span of years between my oldest brother Bob and Brian.

Bob tells a story that he was called to the high school office to be told that he had a new brother. He was fifteen years old at the time. Like the other two brothers, they were soon gone to college and didn’t get to know their youngest sibling.

I was six years older and considered Brian my live baby doll. I was allowed to bath, diaper and change his clothes, with supervision. I would entertain him for hours, singing all the nursery songs. As a baby, his crib was in my room.

When he woke in the night , I would comfort him. If he awoke early in the morning, I would put down the side of the crib and cuddle with him in my bed. This created a close bond that comtinues to this day.

We shared the love of music. Brian was a good piano and later the trumpet. We would sing popular tunes of the 60’s and 70’s. We would sit for hours harmonizing while Brian improvized on the piano.

Like his older brothers, Brian excelled at sports. He was a swimmer, competing in the breast stroke and the butterfly. Later, he was a running back for a junior league football. He was good at catching and running with the ball.

That running had him join the cross country runners and track and field. Brian preferred the longest distances. He was always able to put on a burst of speed to end the race.

He and his best friend , John Monagle, did all the sports together. John became my second younger brother.

Brian had an early love of cars, especially of new Fords. He would know when a new arrival of Fords had been delivered. He would cajole our Dad to take hin to the Ford dealers and check out the vehicles.

When I got my first job, I needed new wheels, Brian read the used car section in the paper to find the perfect car. I think he was looking for an exciting set of wheels to borrow. Most of his selections, I rejected. Until he found a yellow Trans Am. I went with my Dad for a test drive. and I liked the way it handled. When I returned home,

“Well, what do you think of the car?” Brian asked.

“I like it, I am going to buy it.”

“Really, I will wash and wax it weekly and do the maintenance.”

The first week I had the car, Brian and John had an accident and he spent the rest of the summer fixing it.

We have always forgiven each other and shared many good conversations.

Last week, I had a strange conversation with him on the phone. I was relating my husband’s and I wiping out on the tandem bike. He started to tell of breaking his collar bone and ribs while body surfing. As I got off the plone, I realized our topics had changed with aging but the closeness and love will always be there.

Happy Birthday brother!

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Mr Mayor

You saw the service that our Grandfathers and Dad gave the their home town.

After twenty years of helping and caring for Dad, you had time on your hands.

You saw a need in the town that you loved.

Running for Mayor you were pitched into lock down due to Corona.

You kept the town informed with weekly updates and historical facts.

Now you have been relected. What will you do next.

I see Dad and Mom, smiling down at you.

Carolaspot@aol.com

copyright 10/19-21

A giveaway and book Review, October 14, 2021

I am sitting here at my desk after finishing a fellow author’s book, “Why Grandma Doesn’t Know Me.” But first , I want to tell you of an opportunity to put your name in for a drawing for my signed chapbook,”Leaf Memories.” Go to

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Just go to the site of the Handy uncapped pen and write a comment or put your name and email under the cover photo of Leaf Memories, to have your name in the drawing. While you are there, check out this blog source for writers with disabilities.

Now to my review of Abbie Taylor’s newest novel. The title refers to one of the characters, a Grandma with dementia . She fails to recognize one of her grandaughters. In a moment of clarity, she reveals a family secret that threatens to change the family forever.

I was in the room with Natalie when her Grandma in a moment of memory identifies her grandaughter and reveals a secret involving Natalie. I was a aide, listening at the door as the scene unfolded.

Later, the family members saying good bye to Grandma were touching. The character of the priest was used to prompt Marti and Daryl, to give Marti’s permission for mom to pass on. Daryl was asked to play Santa for his younger daughter’s Christmas party at her school

New people are added to the core family structure, threatening to topple years of lies. The characters are able to evolve and change, especially the oldest daughter Natalie.

A young puppy, found in the park adds humor and nostalgia for remembered and loved pets.

Ms. Taylor has woven a story using the perspective of the different characters. I was enthralled to the end.

To read more about this and other books by Abbie Taylor visit her author’s page at https://www.abbiejohnsontaylor.com/

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Authors

There are writers that write to amuse.

Others keep secrets in their diaries .

Some doodle with funny musings and thoughts.

The brave ones boldly put their writings in print.

for the world to read.

They are the authors.

carolaspot@aol.com

copyright 10/14/21